Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back And Stop Future Breakups

If you don't have a clue how to get your ex girlfriend back, you need to read this all the way through. This will help you to work things out with her and also make your relationship stronger when you do get back together. Getting back your ex girlfriend isn't as straight forward as you might think; you can't just turn up on her doorstep with a bunch of flowers and a smile, but it doesn't have to be hard work either.

Guys! You need to remember that 9 times out of 10 she dumped you because you were doing something wrong. Don't worry it's not all your fault, women can be hard work when it comes to relationships but you really need to figure out where things started going wrong before you can fix them.

Luckily some women will come right out and tell you what you did wrong; this makes your life a lot easier when you want to start working on fixing the relationship. Unfortunately not all women will take the time to break it down for you so you may have to figure this part out for yourself but it is crucial that you figure this part out.

Here are a few pointers to help you figure out where things may have gone wrong:

Women hate it when men don't seem to be paying attention to them. If your girlfriend wants to talk to you during the Super Bowl or while you're watching your favorite film you'd better listen up; it may not seem like it can be that important but to her it is. One mistake you can make here is to pretend that you're listening because if she asks you about it later and you don't know the answer, you're busted.

Being emotionally supportive is something which has always confused me, this could be when she's had a hard day and you cuddle up on the couch or watching her favorite weepy movie. Sometimes we have to compromise to keep her happy and have a quite life.

Cheating is something that women are very touchy about, even if sex isn't involved. If you are caught glimpsing at another woman's butt as you walk down the street, this could be classed as cheating. If you have a fantasy about having sex with a famous movie star, this could also be classes as cheating. In fact the only way to avoid cheating is to remember that there are only two women in your life, your girlfriend and your mother; this will avoid any confusion at all.

Living together puts a whole new angle on things; she will want her around the house now and again. Women don't want to do everything in the house, they want you to do your share so if you're sat with your feet up watching the TV while she's washing up and taking out the trash after she's already cooked the dinner; you're going to be in trouble. If you are (were) living together you need to remember that what's yours is hers and what's her has nothing to do with you.

These are just a few things which women seem to have hang ups about so if you don't know the actual reason for the split you might want to start thinking long and hard, starting with these.