How To Win Your Ex Back - The 3 Most Common Mistakes

Perhaps you have just broken up with your ex and is feeling extremely upset now. You still love your ex and really want to win him or her back. Regardless of who initiated the break up and how long you have already broken up, there is an important factor that you must be aware of if you want to increase your chances of success.

That important factor is, many men and women tend to make certain common mistakes when they are trying to win their ex back. Although these mistakes are not usually fatal, which means you can usually do something to correct your mistakes; you still do not want to make them in the first place.

If you can avoid these mistakes in the first place, you won't even need to go and correct them. Therefore, it will be so much easier for you to win your ex back. However, if you have already made some of those mistakes that we are going to discuss, do not worry too much about it and do not blame yourself. We are just human being and we are far from perfect. Especially during this emotionally tough time, it is really hard not to make mistakes.

But it will be a good idea to look at what these mistakes are, so that if you have not made them yet, you can avoid making them in the future. So, what are these mistakes?

1) Telling Your Ex That You Love Him/her

Your ex wants to break up with you. To stop him or her from leaving, you hope that just by saying "I love you", you can win him or her back. Unfortunately, this is not going to help you.

Remember, if your relationship has already reached this critical stage, it means there are some underlying issues that needs to be resolved. Saying "I love you" will not help to resolve any of those important issues.

2) Calling Your Ex Again and Again

If your ex is not picking up the phone when you are calling, you will probably feel panic about it and call him or her even more aggressively. Unfortunately, this will only push your ex further away.

This is because if you do that, you are indirectly telling your ex that you are desperate. Desperation is very repulsive and you ex will only want to run away from you. Therefore, don't do that no matter how tempted you are. Avoid calling your ex over and over again.

3) Arguing with Your Ex over the Break Up

Arguing is probably one of the most common mistakes. Perhaps your ex gives you some lame reasons for breaking up with you. And it is really not fair to you.
Well, regardless of the reasons, remember, don't argue with your ex. It is unlikely to help you in your situation. In fact, you will want to do something counter intuitive. You want to agree with the break up.